Hey, FMV - Would you mind elaborating on this comment. Several of us are in that spot right now and any insight you have would be helpful. Thanks.
Hey XYZ. My IC described it to me like this - physical connection, ML etc, is the most intimate form of communication. So all the other forms - emotional, verbal, mental etc - they need to happen first. They're the foundation for the physical. And not just a month or two's worth!! Give it time. It might take 6 months. It might take a year. I think it depends on what you've been through and what kind of support system you both have for healing. But let me tell you. Hoo boy. It's worth the wait.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
