I can have the same thoughts about the OM, not much we can do there. Wait it out and hope feelings change. I don't know if you caught up on my sitch about what the DB Coach said on this, interesting stuff about how their brains are affected during the beginning of the affair.
Definitely true... And they don't even know that it's happening...
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce