My H took his ring off the first time he left in Dec. 2009 and hasn't worn it since. I have his ring and wear it on a chain. He knows that I want to keep it and he seems to be fine with that.
I have been wearing mine to this day. When the D is final, I imagine I will have to stow away my gorgeous engagement ring. I have made the decision to continue to wear my wedding band and maybe his too on the same finger. I have already made the decision that I won't be selling them. I am going to just put my engagement ring in a safe place for now. Hopefully some day that all the rings will be back where they belong.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
