Question about the Men that left

[Queen_of_Swords]

You have some major positives in my mind. No OW, children, and your H is not happy in his little room working more. He's miserable.lol

This brought something to mind. I notice H is "hard" in his attitude lately. That's very different from what he used to be.
I don't know quite how to put it. It's like he's wearing an emotional exoskeleton of sorts. He has this steely look now where he didn't before. A mental resistance.

This isn't the person I knew.

He volunteers almost nothing about his life beyond work. I don't ask.
The chasm between us, seems to be widening, from my POV.

Laura he has the knowledge of the resources avaialable to help him fix himself and our R. H has chosen to ignore them.

This is part of my hopeless feeling. He knows, but chooses to do exactly what he's done in the past. Save see a divorced cognitive therapist that has written us, as a couple, off.


I will treat myself well today. Although all I want to do is sleep and make the world disappear for while.