here's where my W comes from regarding that.
She looks at the physical part especially sex as a very emotional thing. It's not too physical for her (until we are actually doing the physical part - she doesn't have a NEED for it).

If she's not there 100% emotionally, she ain't going to want to engage in it. Also, she knows it's important for you and does want to give it to you but also doesn't want to give false hope - that sounds harsh but I think that is what's going on in their mind.

They like where we've changed and want to make the sitch work. It's just not as easy to erase years of emotional disconnection.

does that help?

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE