Remember back to the early days of DBing and you had to "act as if"?
For me that principle applies to getting out of most any rut. If you want to be the one who is admiring the sand castle, then you have to act as if in the begining. Then it will be easier, not so much of an act, because now you will truly start to feel proud of the sand castle, saying "yeah thats right, MY H did that!"
Identifing the problem is half the battle. You have the tools girl! You can do it.
