I was interrupted at "work" during my last post so I didn't finish venting.

After giving her what she wanted from the beginning, the roommates thing, and the master bed, W also dropped the idea that I only want her to stick around because I want to save money. I said to her, "You know that's not true." When I offered to let her stay two weeks ago I explicitly said it's for my son, because I had apparently changed my mind about making her move out while she maintained R with OM.

Well the money thing is partly true to the extent that there'll be more for the kids and their damned underthings. But talk about pushing my buttons. Anyway she continued her rant, I don't want you doing my laundry; D17 doesn't want you to put away hers. She says D17 can do her own to earn an allowence. I just kept quiet or agreed we need to discuss allowences for the kids. I've pretty much learned to just STFU when the venom and vitriol start to fly.

If I move to the MLC forum, I think I'll change the thread to "Need Encouragement."

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."