Karma, i'll be out that day, it's decided. In a couple of months it'll be my turn to move out since I can't afford to keep it. In the meantime, it'll be one huge quiet, lonely house that used to be filled with some semblance of love, joy and laughter. I've always been a family guy and I hate the thought of being single again.
You know the first day after she moves out will be hard. I know it. Especially after you see things gone. I think i spent good 2 hours trying to figure out what she took and what she left. Funny, i even tried to interpret the meaning of things she took and left behind. Later i gave up. There's no hidden meaning. There's nothing. But honestly as time goes by you will get used to it. Took me a week. I still cannot go into my daughter's room without breaking down. So i dont go in there. But eventually we'll get used to it. It'll be okay. Think of this as another challenge that god places before us.
Sure makes you wonder if this is God's way of teaching us a lesson (or two) for our neglect, as well as watching our spouses (and families) make a fool of themselves.
My wife seems to be leaving everything that has connections with me, e.g. Gifts, books, pictures, cards, wedding gifts, baby seats, etc. Some of what she's taking with her kind of infuriates me, such as some of our son's clothes that HER family or friends bought. I mean, he still will be spending some days with me, so why can she take the nice clothes, and leaving me with older crap? I guess she's thinking what's hers is hers, which in this case, is rather childish. It's our son's clothes, for crying out loud.
