I am pleased for you Laura that you've found a way to work through the mess. I'm kind of down today. Feeling my situation is hopeless. 17 months is a long time for a separation, I feel, that the situation is permanent on some levels, and I will be raising my kids alone. Yes I will be a better person in the end with all this reading, working and discovery about myself. Yes that is a valuable end in itself. He77 of a price to pay for it.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.