Just an update since I haven't been here in a while. We're still working on things to remain close. We are more open to telling each other how we feel. As far as I can tell the OM is not around anymore. I check things as much as possible and she doesn't hide her phone calls or emails from me. She also leaves her phone whenever possible. She's also trying to be reassuring as much as she can as well.
We're both getting a little settled back into our lives. I've scaled back a few things that have gotten in the way of family life. She's trying to do things to make her feel better about herself - running, exercising, etc. The household doesn't seem to be on pins and needles now. More settled and comfortable.
Walking down the path together with the same goal in mind has brought us to a better place.
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12
