Any suggestions regarding my previous post?

UPDATE 8:03am
Today I'll be inquiring from the PD how things work from their POV concerning my wife moving with my child to an undisclosed location.

Because of this move my wife has taken, some friends and family have been advising me to file first, rather than wait for my wife to do so. I'm torn because it's my son I worry about vs. what DBing is all about.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112