Have realized it's not so much that we don't fit together. It's that we haven't really been working together.
Not just in the bedroom, although that's where it has been most obvious that I haven't been...letting her do her thing and come the way she wants...but now I am seeing how are lack of real intercourse - I'm talking true communication, has been messing us up in every other area as well.
This is essential for me to understand and one day to help her understand as well.
The fact is she is an intensely aware and feeling person. And I am intensely aware and thinking person.
The truth is we can be unstoppable, once we have truly come together.
What I am feeling secure about right now, is that at the very least, as long as I don't push, then she will take the time to fully understand my views before she makes the divorce final.
We're on that path right now, and right now my own basic needs are taken care of, so right now I have nothing at all to fear.
Cheers.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
