I can have the same thoughts about the OM, not much we can do there. Wait it out and hope feelings change. I don't know if you caught up on my sitch about what the DB Coach said on this, interesting stuff about how their brains are affected during the beginning of the affair.

Try to get it out of your head, tough to do sometimes, I know...

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