W says she loves me, but still insists on communicating with some of the Men she has been seeing that she met via the internet. One guy in particular who is married lives in another state but works where we live 2 weeks out of the month.
found out W lost the interest and has not been attracted to me for about 2 years. But she says she loves me.... She said lately she doesn't have those feeling for me like when we where first married. She is also afraid that if she leaves me that she will destroy me financially. She doesn't want to hurt me. But I'm afraid she is waiting for that momentwhen she can leave...
With the bipolar which was diagnosed last Nov, is W in the WAW stage?
Not sure where to start. Has been an emotional roller coaster this past week.
Desperately look for feedback, advise suggestions and/or comments....
Reccos, I have been following your sitch. I just don’t know where to start. My MIL, SIL are bipolar, W maybe. IMO this makes for a more dynamic sitch as their emotions and mindsets are constantly changing. I am not dealing with them on a day to day basis. I can only imagine how your day to day is.
So what if your W was not bipolar? What does DR recommend?
What are your 180s?
What are you doing for you?
IMO you should not try to fix this. You should try and heal you. When you have found some stability the rollercoaster will slow down. It has not stopped for me, but the plunges are not quite as steep.
Is she a WAW? I don’t know. There are others on this board that will ask you what does your gut tell you? Well what does it? If you pursue, appear needy she may very well become one. I’d wager her online friends are not appearing needy.
Breathe, Calm down, Center yourself for the long haul ahead. Read DR, Read DR, Absorb DR, Read and post to other threads. Other posts have ideas and advice you can apply. Posting in other threads draws attention to yours.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
