I think that MC has done more harm than good. He doesn't sound pro-marriage if he's talking about S. If it were me, I'd stop going to him and put that money on a DB Coach. Your W isn't going to listen to any counseling right now b/c she thinks "you" are the problem.
You are correct. I am not sure what or how to do the DB coach thing. Being in Germany I think makes it hard to get any true counseling or even any advice because what the military offers is very limited.
I will continue with advice from here and keep working towards being a better person. I just cannot for the life of me understand her head. And things like facebook and twitter do nothing but constantly hurt and upset me.
I feel her best friend has pushed her to this point and by reading comments and statements posted by her do nothing but further fuel my fears and frustrations.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
