Newbie post What to do now

[BeingMe]

I agree about keeping the circle of people who know about your sitch as small as possible. Unfortunately, I discovered about my H's EA, just before starting a new job. I couldn't concentrate, and would burst into tears and odd times. My boss knew that something was going on, and asked me, so I had to tell. We had a small team, so everyone knew by then. I am glad I told because they helped me to get calmed, and understood. I worked there for a year before moving to another city, but I remember those workmates very fondly.

It always depends on the circumstances, where you work, etc.


I do see a baby step in your wife giving you that web address. Do not, however, return the favour and give this one. This is for you to vent, and you won't be able to so worrying that she may be lurking.