I don't think her saying anything to the kids is to bad mouth me, I think it's more of a self-preservation thing. I told her I don't appreciate it and that I don't think it's fair of her. She just said she'll be better next time, she just kind of reacted when my D5 asked.

After kids went to bed we sat down together to watch a movie. I asked her if she was going to tell why she really took the rings off. She just said she could have taken them off months ago, but just didn't and that there was no significance to her taking them off now, her dry sore hands just triggered taking them off - although she hadn't planned to put them back on.

Then she just said, "I'm not ready to work on US right now." I just said, "I understand, and I hope you know I'm not expecting anything to happen over night."

Then we just sat and watched the movie, we laughed a bit and chatted about some of the scenes - everything seeming almost normal at times.

5 days until she goes away, will be a nice break. Maybe it will help, or maybe it will make things worse - I'm not sure.

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011