Starsky,
Thinking in terms of setting boundaries with my W can be overwhelming. I would be reacting to every act of poor behavior she does. I don't want to enter "her world" because she's not in a good place at this time, but is trying to climb out of it.

Boundaries are important, but I want my mindset to go beyond that. I don't want to police every annoying word or phrase or mood. I don't want to put my energy there.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching