Should I just stick to my guns? I am trying to figure out if anything should be said or justs tick to my June deadline and see what happens then.
The basics are,
she no longer trusts me and does not beleive that after 20 years I am truly changing. She thinks I am only changing to keep her. The truth is of course I want my marriage to continue but I also see that I need to change my ways because all I have done is hurt my wife for 20 years and my kids for 13 and 10 years.
I just spent the weekend with the kids and they do not seem to like the idea of living in seperate homes or states in our case.
Do I keep divorce busting and hope she comes around to seeing the new me and realization the kids can be in a happy home with both of us in the same home?
I know this is getting old but I just need re assurance.
Also, should I continue with marraige counseling? Our last meeting I said I wanted to stop going because it seemed it was all about "seperation" instead of working on marriage.
HELP
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
