Recovering after a same sex affair

[Firstlove]

Sparks

Its good to focus on the good things and be thankful for them. One of the good things you have going in your sitch is that your wife will actually talk to you - and communication is at the very foundation of any good relationship, especially one that is on the road to healing and reconciliation.

My wife simply refuses to talk about the affair she had or on us building a new relationship - she simply refuses to talk. She will talk to her other friends about it but refuses to talk to me - pretty hard road to reconcile with someone who will not talk to you. I don't envy your sitch - but at least you two are talking -that is something I do not have in mine.