The "I Do Again" book and website and Youtube videos are indeed excellent - and they too gave me hope. I am not yet divorced but my WAW simply refuses to talk to me about our R - it is a non-topic - whenever I try to bring it up she simply says "I am not talking about this - do not bring it up". I have a DB coach and we are walking thru this and other issues, but it sure is FRUSTRATING to be putting in so much DB work and effort and time when you are doing all the work and your spouse simply does not care one bit if you build a new relationship or not - when you are the only one who cares - it makes for very lonely days and nights let me tell you.
I agree though, the DB coach program is well worth it. Did your H ever put any effort into reconciliation before your D, even while you were doing DB coaching - or did he just give up and walk away like my wife has ?
M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
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"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined" - Thoreau
