Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I am not going to bring it up for a few days though. Want to let her get through all of this stuff with her grandma's passing. I do get a little down when I think about the fact that all of this could still be for naught... The invisible hand is still there of course. But I did put my arm around her today numerous times! She let me, so I guess that's a good sign! Ha!


Denver, hang in there. Yes, I would definitely not put too much thought or stock into what happens while see is fighting a death in the family. That can be a rough time and she could pull back once it is all over. I wish I had a "Patience 2x4" that you and I could pass back and forth to each other. I think we could both use it sometimes...

FOBD


Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...