Dixie,
FOBD here. Listen to 2step, he is right. He is just checking to see if you are still there. I get the feeling he is making plans with you to see if he can, but might not have any intention of going through with them. He just wants to know that he still has that control. The first sign that will be real and positive is when he makes those plans and goes through with them. Until he does, I think you need to be less available. Remember, if you let him make the plans and then be the one to actually show up, you will know that he wants to be there. Next time, don't be so accommodating and watch what happens.

Good to hear from you, girl!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...