I agree with his advice about the apology. I don't think I agree with his advice about filing. Although he would not be the first MC to think that in order to break the stalemate you should take charge and file.
My main point is simple. You carry a lot of blame. I get that. We all do.
This is why I told you to read the article on the DB site. It explains how you are not so abnormal after all.
Like I said make sure you click on the like button because grr said the more people like it the more they will post similar articles and I can use all the help I can get.
I am waiting to see one written for us men about women.