Probably in about 30 minutes. Have a long day tomorrow. Just sitting up, checking on the BITS and trying to figure this thing out. My C gave me alot to think about today. He once again pushed me to file for D, but I stopped him in his tracks. He asked me if I had considered dating yet, and I told him "not really." I have had two opportunities in the past three weeks to explore other options and I have passed. He also pushed me hard to work on getting rid of my expectations and making sure that I am doing things for the right reasons and not to gain anything...

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...