I don't think most husbands realize the whole strip club thing. We think it's ok and it is harmless (to us) but not to our wives. Everyone said how cool my W was to let me go and do that and I totally took advantage of it.
Never again!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE