Navy, tread lightly. I don't think there is anything wrong with going to them and letting them know that you still want to stay in the M and do what is best for the kids and the family. But, don't elaborate or beg, plead or cry. Just assure them that you are not OK with what is going on and that you are willing to do what is best for your M and your family. And, just leave it at that. Remember, whatever you say to them will get to your W. EVERYTHING!

I don't know if you have kept up with my sitch from the beginning, but my FIL (who has been one of my very best friends for 15 years) turned on me a couple of weeks ago. Remember, blood is thicker than water, ALWAYS.

But, I don't think there is anything wrong with briefly letting them know that your family is the most important thing in the world right now. JMO.

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...