Denver, I am soooooo happy for you buddy. Still sounds like you are doing great. She is going to remember on those cold, lonely nights how much a good man you were during a dark time. You could have turned your back on her or been a jerk. But, despite everything, you are still there for her when times got tough. I like that. I like that a lot and you should be commended for your efforts. You are my mentor!!!!

Yes, that invisible hand is there and it is very powerful. I spoke to my C about that. Here is some really crappy news that I hope will help, none the less. He told me you will never know that it is gone until it is gone. If that makes sense. In other words, it will disappear and you won't even notice it until it has been gone for some time. And, unfortunately, only she can make it go away.

Good luck, my friend!!!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...