Sparks, the DB coach really just enforces the methods that are in the book. I had so many questions on how to apply the methods to my situation, I thought it was worth the $$ to try. It has been worth it to me, although 3 sessions might not be enough. Like I said, the first was almost all background, then tonight we got to really apply things to my sitch. Now I only have one left. I know this will take a lot of time so I might need to do some more. Funny, I have always been the money guy in our marriage, and I was always the one to dictate "what we could afford." Now, money is not a huge concern for me! Hell, I even joke about it, everything is 50% off right now!
IW, I am flying out this Thursday to see a buddy of mine in NC. He is a BioChem guy, works for a drug manufacturer, I'll see what he can come up with!!!
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