I am with the majority here. H came back into a familiar place. Just another chance to DB as 2step said.

My problem right now is detaching. I see my W everyday, as we co-parent. It blows that I cannot give her the love I want. I just need to back off, and let it run its course.

I can see that in you as well. You are not a doormat. Stay strong. Everyday he comes by with that same familiarity is another day he will understand what he is missing.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated