After hearing about the coaches here, I would love to inquire a real answer. My wife and I have been to marriage counseling locally for the last several weeks. It seems to be working okay, as my wife appreciates this therapist, and the communication is there.

Not trying to be sold here, what are the benefits of spending the dough to meet with a DB coach? In my sitch, my wife is not ready to completely reconcile, as she is questioning her own sexual orientation.

Thanks!

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated