Using family and friends is like throwing a boomerang.
Approach with caution
I agree here. I am very close with my in-laws. I have spent more time with them than my own parents, since my wife and I have been married. I can honestly say that they love and treat me as if I am their own son.
I have not had any communication with them at all, since the I approached my my wife about the affair weeks ago. It is killing me, but I have learned to accept that this is her family. I need to back off, as it is none of my business how they treat this situation with their daughter. 2step is correct. Proceed with caution.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated