Not sure, but I'm sick of having no control over the sitch.
You have control over yourself......period. You never really had control over the M throughout the 15yrs my friend. Neither did I. It is an illusion to think we have control. During our M we have the control our spouse allows us to have. Plain and simple. We just don't realize that until this happens.
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"Because Daddy took them away from her."
Wrong. However, you can set boundries and not inflame. Your reaction says more about you than it does about the person that caused you to react.