One thing I do need to think about, what are my small, short time goals?
Very good thing to figure out...
I know, I would actually appreciate any feedback people might have on this. What should I be looking for? I really don't know. Early on she was open to us spending time together with our D, so I am sure I could obtain this, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. I guess a goal could be her initiating some time together, but then I think that might not be a small enough goal. I need to understand what my expectations should be.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Wow, how did you work that out? Did you ask your wife and she said yes? I could actually see my wife agreeing to this, but I don't want to pursue. I don't know if there is anything anyone could tell her right now to make her think any differently. How do you think it went when your wife talked to her?
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
We started talking one night and the convo lasted about 6hrs at one point it felt right so I risked it. She said with no resistance she would meet Jody. We set the appt for the following week. All week long I thought she would cancel but she actually called me 3 times to confirm the appt. Each time saying "what are your expectations here. I hope you don't think I am going to talk to this lady and she will fix all our problems in one hour"
I responded "honey if she could do that she would be worth 3 times the money lol"
It was a great session and I am sure I will get a second but the time has not been right yet.
Interesting. I might get to the point to risk it as well, but I am not there yet. Like I said, she said to try different things, I might have to make a move at some point.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
