Great points TG. I think right now it is for the right reason, I am acting how I want to act. What feels comfortable to me right now. I also want to point out, I see my actions more of "friendly" than being "a friend."

I do feel pretty good these days. I am doing a lot for myself, travel, guitar lessons, and when the season changes a hell of a lot more golf.

My attitude right now is, she is doing what she is doing, and I am doing what I am doing. She is making herself happy, I am making myself happy.

Of course I still want to make things work, that is why I am here. That is why I am doing the DB coaching. But I also know that my only path towards that is making myself happy, I making good progress.

One thing I do need to think about, what are my small, short time goals? With my W already being friendly towards me, what do I want to see next. TBH, I am not totally sure. Without that, I cannot create a plan to achieve it.

For now, I am working on patience. Working on myself, trying not to concentrate on the "big picture." One day at a time...


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