Islander, It sounds like the new furniture got your mind off things alittle today. I understand when you say detached but depressed. I think that is possible because thats how i feel. I havent spoken to my H is a week either. Hes been visiting the OW for the last 4 days. Thats so hard to comprehend. I thought about it constantly. OW lives in another state which is good and bad i guess. It makes it harder for him to see her but then again he takes the time to go see her. I try to get my mind off of it but its hard. MY DB coach says i need to focus on other things when i have these thoughts. It seems the only thing i can focus on is this whole situation. I want so much to have my M, H, F back just like you wish. I guess its alittle different for me because my kids are grown and out of the house. It would be nice to have someone here so im glad to hear that you have your D with you. Why do you feel horrible? I just would love some communication with my H. and not thru the atty. Anyway I hope you can try and think good thoughts and enjoy your time with your D. Take care
