Sparks - have you done a bucket list, like the movie? That was one thing that helped me GAL and it came up in convo with H. He was really surprised with some of the things I wanted to do. Plus, I've been crossing stuff off. Also, since we're all getting emotionally hammered, take the time to list out what you have done already (sky diving, visited X country, ate sushi, met Oprah?)! Give yourself credit for your own awesomeness.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem