Living a Country Song - Part II

[Truegritter]

We talked a lot about the fine line between being a friend and how I should behave.

Early in your time as an LBS you will want to be overboard on the friend side for alot of reasons...

Sometimes guilt for things you did wrong

Sometimes your low self confidence because after all she left you and if you can get her back, you are validated.

Important thing to learn is taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.

Align those with your goal.

Examine WHY you are acting that way.

Be a friend if you can do it and not feel like a heel or a doormat...

If you can give it without some expected response or from the other negative reasons about yourself.

If you do it for any other reason or before you are ready to handle it she will sniff you out like a drug dog at the Miami airport.

So find your way by paying attention to you. If you can't interact with her without having to swallow a bunch of crap

That lump in your throat and that wrenching in your belly...

Then best not to put yourself in those situations until you are ready to handle it.

No good for you or your goal to save your M.