IW, I think you need to find a way to let your wife go. Stop texting unless you are have logistic problems with the care of your daughter. It is too easy to keep in contact, and that is keeping W on your mind. Remember, you don't need her. Find a safe thought or action you can go to when you are thinking of her, and go to it. What she does right now is on her. Get busy being the IW that is a woman magnet.
