Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

gr8,

I read almost all of your threads today. The one was way too long I skipped through some of the middle but I was able to see the pain and confusion you were going through just like I have been. At the end I noticed that you started to change your mindset about the situation and then she decided she wanted to come back.

I too am starting to feel the same way you are. As her confidence level is dropping I am starting to lose interest. Also looking back at some of the way I was treated by her also pushes me further away. It is weird now I can tell she is really wanting me to talk to her but I just get off the phone as quickly as possible. I hope still really hope your sitch gets better for you. I really don't believe in divorce especially when there is kids involved. Kids really do need both of the actual parents there. I am a product of a single parent household where my Dad was never involved and it is hard. There has been a lot of times that I think I was better off than the kids who had divorced parents because I didn't know what I was missing. I don't want to harp on you. You definitely need to do what is best for you and your kids in your sitch but I am praying for you that things do work out for the best.

I really appreciate you taking me under your wings through this. It really means a lot for a complete stranger to carry you by the coat tail.

DAOITN