Wow!!! Just wow. The dam broke and that is just an AWESOME thing.

Can I tell you how proud I am of you!! That was a difficult topic to navigate and you did great.

I think that the healing is really going to start now. And that's just what you needed. Please remember how you feel today so you never find yourself in the situation again. My H talked to women like that and it ruined my self confidence in ways I can't even begin to describe. I was the "cool" W who dealt with a lot of that, strip clubs, etc. But in the end, it killed me.

This is so awesome, Bolt. Look at all this work you've done. Be proud, sweetie.

Oh and ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ what grr said. She understood EXACTLY what she was doing!!!

I'm praying for you.

LIS


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11