Not sure I'm in any place to tell you about setting boundaries...my W and kids are 2000 miles away...

I would not put up with being bad-mouthed to my kids, nor will I ever bad mouth my W to them. They love us both, and we love them, and nothing should ever be said that could cause them to question that.

BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.