Navyguy, Thanks for responding! No I can not move out. We have two small kids and I work from home. We have no family around here (6 hours away). I can not afford to go anywhere at this point. Open to any suggestions. I want to save my marriage but he is cake eating (I don't know if this is the right term)? I have a feeling he is forming some exit plan at this point. If he files before june 9 I will not be able to touch his retirement account if we did divorce. Money if very important to him and it would be a lot to divide.
