Just was walking around the house and noticed photos and other memorabilia not where they used to be. We set some of those pictures in pairs, like her family and mine, or pictures of her and myself when we were kids...well, hers are gone now. So are some of the things that remind me of our time in college together, her childhood, our hard-fought experiences of getting her to and being in medical school, etc. I hate seeing white on walls where there used to be color and memories. I can do some decorating of my own or move stuff around, but should I do it while my wife's gone, so when she comes home she'll be wondering what I've done to the place? Or do I wait after she moves out? She'll still see what I've done when she drops and picks up my son. What do you think?
