Originally Posted By: sandi2

Look sweetie, you can't let things like that push your buttons. She's already told you she wants a D, so don't be surprised when you see her to things that endorse it.

Do yourself a favor and stay off her FB page b/c whatever you see is going to make you crazy.



I guess I've convinced myself that this entire time she is under a great deal of inner turmoil over her decision, where part of her is saying divorce, while the other part is questioning it. I may be naive for thinking that the part that has greater say is the latter, because that is the part of my wife I know - the caring, empathetic and loving person.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112