In a couple of months it'll be my turn to move out since I can't afford to keep it.
Don't wait until then, start finding a place now. The name of the game is "be prepared".
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I just noticed my wife reverted her FB name back to her maiden name
Look sweetie, you can't let things like that push your buttons. She's already told you she wants a D, so don't be surprised when you see her to things that endorse it.
Do yourself a favor and stay off her FB page b/c whatever you see is going to make you crazy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!