Just a question here - what does your W want ? - what are her
hopes dreams fears
do you know - does she know ?
Firstlove coming in with the million dollar question.
I thought I had an idea of this after our first few years of marriage. In the last year, those ideas have been shattered.
I guess, because of the current situation, I would have a hard time even writing them out right now.
There was a time when her relationship with me and the idea of starting a family was at the top of her list. I think back to those little surveys that get passed around and remember reading her answers. Her "perfect job" was to be a stay at home Mom. Your question had me thinking what my W has always felt, not necessarily how I portrayed her or asked her. I checked a social website where she wrote her descriptions. Here was the beginning.
"I mostly love simple things: Being anywhere with my husband Our crazy loving supportive families ..."
So if I were to say what were my wife's goals and aspirations last year, I would have said to have a loving family, have as much fun as possible, travel, play and listen to music, etc.
Last year, she began talking to a friend about seizing the day and finding true happiness by busting out of her box. I supported these fun adventures. They were innocent, though.
Maybe it was in finding this true happiness, that led her to an emotional and then physical attachment to a woman.
How did the hopes and dreams of hers sway that radically? I can tell you with honesty, that I am not a perfect husband, but others would describe me as a very loving and solid guy.
So.......
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
