Sandi, so with her being gone all weekend and then asking me that question "you seem ansy" could have been her way of needing me to make her feel needed....?
No, I don't mean that she wanted to feel needed. A WAW doesn't want to hear that from the LBH. I just meant that she could have easily used your answer to start a R talk that would not have ended well.
I know that a lot of women use questions to goad an unsuspecting man into a discussion he would not originally want.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!