She said had cried all night last night and this morning. I told her that there was nothing I could do for her to make her feel better that should would have to deal with this on her own. She asked me if I got the text from her the other night. I told her I had. She asked why I didn't respond. I told her because there was nothing to respond about. She said well can't we be friends? I said no we can't be friends. I said friends hang out together, they talk and have dinner together and we are none of those. I said we can be friendly but not not friends. I said I don't want to be on your bad side or your enemy but I can't be only your friend.
She said she is so overwhelmed and pretty much asked me to hold her up through it. I said that is for you to deal with and that I can not do that for you and I can not help you through this. You wanted this and you will have to deal with the circumstances.
Good job!! I believe if more LBH's would tell the WAW that he was not going to be friends, it would cause her to rethink her plans.
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There was more but it was basically blame game. (her blaming me for everything)
Yeah, that's when it's time to say good-bye and hang up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
