ajm .. nobody says forgiveness has to happen now or next week or even next year.
it happens when you are ready for it. oh yeah .. forgiveness isn't mandatory. it's an option. nobody even says you HAVE to forgive her. it's a choice you make. and it's up to you when you do so.
don't put a timeline on something like that. that's like added pressure, y'know?
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I did talk to the lawyer the other day. Nice to know just how screwed I'll be monetarily. That's ok though. My sanity is worth more than that money and in the final analysis, it's worth it. But getting there is sooooooooo tiring when it keeps coming up.
i know what you mean. my stbxh is trying to screw me monetarily as well. it's not always the man who gets shafted. and trust me, the woman doesn't have all the power. we get called so many names just for asking for a "fair" deal. man just has to win. what kind of man screws a woman over when he's the one who wants out?
it [censored] when it keeps coming up. i wish it was over.
what are you doing for yourself and what are your kids doing these days?
